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Originally Posted by ammulu
Well I'm actually ignoring her totally now, I speak to her when she speaks to me else just a "hello" and we move on. It is so that these days if I talk to someone whom even she knows very well, she immediately goes to that person to speak about something once I leave. In any parties when we happen to meet it is like a group having dinner together and she walks up to person beside me, hugs and says "Good-Bye" but doesn't even look at me, I too don't just bother and just ignore these things. One main reason would surely be insecurity, mostly because being a home maker and meeting the boss of my husband once in a while I'm more recognized and spent time with, may be this makes her feel very insecure.
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I'd like to make one more suggestion and this one will sound really strange, but realize that I work for a mental health clinic, ok? I find that I have greater compassion for those who are suffering from some type of mental illness than I do for people who I see as "normal". Without knowing the person you are referring to, but based upon your description, I'd suspect there is something going on beyond a possible personality issue. So if it would help any and keeping it to yourself, just imagine she is suffering from a mental illness and cannot help herself. I've know of other people who deal with annoying people in this manner and it seems to work.
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