Ignoring signs

[kaia]

Have you ever had a series of events that you felt were signs that you were either supposed to do something, or not supposed to do something, and yet you had to proceed the way you were going, against the signs? We just moved and it sure felt like everything was telling us not to go, mostly a series of car troubles. But we had to go anyway, for a job. I still feel uneasy about it.

[Serenity]

Have you stopped to think that the situation may be opposite of what you are thinking? Perhaps this move is a good thing for you and something was trying to prevent you but you persevered?

Regardless of whether it was signs or not, you clearly had to make the move so now it is up to you to make it a positive one. Try to focus on the positive aspects (better money?) since it's rather too late to worry now. Worry just accentuates negative energy in your life.

[harmonythruchaos]

Originally Posted by Serenity

Have you stopped to think that the situation may be opposite of what you are thinking? Perhaps this move is a good thing for you and something was trying to prevent you but you persevered?

Regardless of whether it was signs or not, you clearly had to make the move so now it is up to you to make it a positive one. Try to focus on the positive aspects (better money?) since it's rather too late to worry now. Worry just accentuates negative energy in your life.

Very nice .

Always focus on the positive aspects.

[lauralane]

I have sometimes in younger years misread signs before than led me the wrong way, then got down to the end and turned around to get myself back where I belong. Sometimes signs are tricky and then sometimes you wonder how you ever doubted it.

[1wahmom]

I have always tended to believe that things happen for a reason. Like for instance, we were going to move and rent another home even though our home at the time was paid for. It turned out my car blew up and I had to decide to stay where I was in order to afford car payments. I was so frustrated over this b/c I had everything worked out to where I could afford the rent and it was in a nicer location than I lived in at the time. However, a couple months later my husband got his back broke and was out of work for several months. This made me wonder if that was the whole reason I had to choose getting a car that had a lower payment over renting a different home that would've had rent that was tough to pay without my hubby being able to work.

[Lena]

I too believe that all things happen for a reason, but I also believe that we make our own destiny. You could look at it in the light that if you were not to move, you would not have received the job offer. Be positive about your move and I am ure only good things will come.

[EternalSearch]

I have in the past ignored some pretty blatant signs, and I have ended up paying for it big time. However your situation really can be interpreted other ways-the Devil plays with us too, and you may have done perfectly right in fighting to succeed.

[pixie]

While I could agree it seems like a sign to not move when things start to go wrong and need replaced or repaired (cutting into your moving budget) it could also mean you were meant to start over with a nice fresh, clean slate. new job, new home, new car, new everything. Let go of the past, regroup, refocus and move forward embracing the chance to start anew.

[EternalSearch]

Yes, Pixie, that's a wonderful observation. It can be so hard to let go of both family ties and of our ties to our current physical world that sometimes we need that little encouragement.

[lauralane]

I can admit that sometimes I will still see something this day and age and wonder if its a sign, and it might take another sign (so say a bump) for me to realize HEY. Happens to us all.