Last night I had a dream, first of all I dreamt of my boyfriend, he came in through the front door and flung his arms around me and gave me the biggest kiss, it made me feel so warm and happy inside. He is lacking giving me any affection at the moment and is distant, this upsets me immensley.I remember feeling so happy in my dream at this point
Secondly, straight after I dreamt of my aunt who died of cancer last year, she was my closest aunt in my heart, I hadn't had much contact with her for 3 years and previous to that I hadn't had much contact with her since her husband died, they were like a second family to me up until the age of 15, i am now 36. In my dream which was so vivid and I felt the emotions, I telephoned her house and she answered the phone, she said to me, nobody comes to see me anymore, why......in my head (in my dream) I thought but your dead, you are not really here, but it felt so real in my dream, so i put down the phone, I then was in a shop in my dream and saw my aunt having a cup of coffee, she had the same face she had had for years, a sad look, I was so scared of her, i don't know why, she said to me, ''Why did you not ever come and see me'' why? I ran away towards to the tube station which was in the building, i ran away as fast as i could down the stairs and at the bottom was a pool, similar to the ones you get after you have had a sauna that you want to jump into, it was at the foot of where trains come in, as i was waiting for my train, this guy walked past me and was walking on water....that was the end of my dream.
My interpretation could be one or all of 3 things, she is trying to tell me, as I dreamt about my boyfrined previous, not to get upset as much because otherwise i will make myself ill, as we are arguing heavily at the moment, or i must say he is as he has become so distant and i feel like i can't say anything to him otherwise he puts down the phone on me, which really uspets me. Or it is because I hadn't gone to see my aunt much when she was alive and she was upset about that which contributed to her illness, orwhen my uncle died (her husband) i was so scared to go round there because I still felt his prescence and that is why i never saw her I think.
Please help, as i am hoping you can help? I am trying to move away from my boyfriend all of six months, but i dont seem to have the inner strength as being a spiritual person i see the good in him that i saw in the first 3 months and i am hanging in there in the hope fo settling down..........but it is making me extremely sad....
I would like to add that I have dreamt of 3 people who have died, once when i moved house and i was sad again, i had just separated from my husband and my nan appeared inmy dream to say ''you will be fine in this new house, you will be fine'' and all was fine whislt i was at that house.
the other person was a long term friends mum who had died of cancer, she was at her lowest point (my friend) when i randomly called round to see her, i don't see her that often, she said to me, I always appear at the times when she is sad, she said to me if only i could have a sign from my mum that she is stilla round, so i dreamt of her and she came to me in my dream and told me to tell my friend (her daughter) that she was ok.
why do people who have died come to us in our dreams, is it a point of sadness or change......or maybe a turning point in ones life?
Thank you for reading. I hope someone can help me interprete all this?
Last night I had a dream, first of all I dreamt of my boyfriend, he came in through the front door and flung his arms around me and gave me the biggest kiss, it made me feel so warm and happy inside. He is lacking giving me any affection at the moment and is distant, this upsets me immensley.I remember feeling so happy in my dream at this point