Up setting dream

[Paulie]

Early this moring I had a dream that my husband was having an afair with his sister--what does that mean and I was unable to leave him --very upset--then I was at a college trying to enroll and had abuse conversations with a few different staff people. Woke up upset and still can't shake it.

[EternalSearch]

Do you have issues with how close he is to his family? Does he still do a lot with his sister, or other family and perhaps you resent that a little?

[micdiggy]

Sometimes its not the exact person shown inthe dream , that could just be to show you how close th person is ..So it could be a close friend of your who you regard as your sister..With prayers all can be changed....

[Paulie]

No, he is not very close to his sisters, they only talk once a month if that. I don't think I feel resentment toward them or her (youngest sister just left her husband and is now becoming more selfish than she was when she was married--Left her 2 small children with husband and sees them 1/2 of the time now. This dream is still in my mind, I don't feel as badly as I did that morning, but very unsettled about his behavior and what his actions were causing me to have to do. Go back to school, start over, I was very anger at him but sad that my life was now going to change and it wasn't my idea, I didn't make the first move, I was forced into this change. I am just starting to read Radical Forgivness by Colin C Tipping (after dream) I believe this dream was trying to tell me something and need to know what --I feel I am in a Transitionally time in my life but I am in control of it, not in this dream.

[Paulie]

Very intersting, there is a girl I work with who has alot of the same actions that my older sister has and I aml good friends with her, office wise, My husband is working at her house. There are always kids there so I don't feel anything has happened physically but my husband has a hard time connecting with people and he now feels like he is "in" our fun group. So maybe it is a loss of my own personal friends by him working there and them talking about me and I am not included.

[lauralane]

The latter you remarked on is very well possible. I notice sometimes the longer I let things sit and set for they end up making more sense later down the road.