I have been having a dream the last couple of nights and I'm not sure what it means, if anything.
A little background first so everyone will understand the dream - I have a 10 mth old daughter that my parents have tried to have removed from me twice now. I have not spoken to my parents since before she was born, and even had to have my phone number changed because they were harassing me.
I have been dreaming that my parents are coming into my home and they remove my daughter from me by force, they do some very bad bodly harm to my boyfriend, and then burn my home down with my daughter in it. Each night that I have had this dream (4 times so far) it gets worse, and worse. I will wake up hearing the sounds of my daughter screaming, and its really beginning to worry me. This sounds really weird, I know, and I honestly don't know if it just might be stress or if this might mean something. Any ideas or any one else who might have had a dream kinda like this and can give me any insight on this it will be appericated.
Thanks
i can't tell you 100 % what it means but i know that if dreams to repeat themself it is because your actions remain the same even though you know something needs to be changed. Your subconsciouss tries to wake you in waking world..
Maybe it is guilt from running away, or not talking to them, maybe a part of you feels it may be wrong, the path you are on is wrong is dangerous, so the dream world symbolises this with violence, ..
One thing is sure, your mind is agitated, as such it is very hard to know what is right anyway, but try to be honest to yourself and ask youself "where am i going, what am i doing, do i know why i am doing this" .. try to honestly answer those questions and then see if the dreams appear again..
also, what helps is if you try to communicate with characters in the dream, it is hard 'cause consciousness is not there when we dream, but still, tell yourself, next time i see my parents i will not be afraid, i will talk to them, they will not kill me, my fear is irrational since i am in a dream world, repeat this so you will thell your subconscious that next time you are in a dream, and all this happens again you will remember, and will not be afraid, ..
Fear is the big factor that does not allow for progres and healing to occur..
But as i said the dream could mean so many things, especially since i don't know you and am not a professionall at this i cannot tell you exactly what..
I hope some of my words were helping, and your dreams will subside through conscious observing of your thoughts, so you will know what fear you have, acknowledge them, do not repress them for they will manifest in all their power in the dream world, talk to them, and with this the healing begins, the unification of the divisive mind can begin..
May love and harmony with grace rule the Universe ..
I think Sasha's idea of trying to speak to your parents in the dream, since you can't in "real" life is a very good one. It is called "Lucid" dreaming. When you are drifting off to sleep, simply keep your objective in mind and tell your self this is what you want to do. It may take a few times, but if you are persistant, it will work.
I am sorry you are experiencing such difficulties in your sleeping and waking life. I will send you positive energy to aid you.
I do also agree with Sasha that being very honest with your self is a big necessity in resolving this issue.
And....since I do not know you or your family, IF the possibility of violence is real. Please be careful and every vigilant.
Hi babygirl82,
What I have learned about dreams I will share with you: First off, you are the best person to interpret your dreams and secondly there is help out there. The key items in your dream have the same meanings to others who dream them and they are symbols for you to decode the meaning. I read your description and "Fire" or the burning down of the house especially with your daughter in it and especially by those who want to protect her must be very significant. Please see the symbol meaning of fire and such from the website Dream Moods A-Z Dream Dictionary and I hope and believe it may help.
See below:
Fire
Depending on the context of your dream, to see fire in your dream can symbolizes destruction, passion, desire, illumination, transformation, enlightenment, or anger. It may suggest that something old is passing and something new is entering your life. Your thoughts and views are changing. In particular, if the fire is under control or contained in one area, it is a metaphor of your own internal fire and inner transformation. It also represents your drive and motivation.
To dream of that you are being burned by fire, indicates that your temper is getting out of control. Some issue or situation is burning you up inside.
To dream that a house is on fire, indicates that you need to undergo some transformation. If you have recurring dreams of your family house on fire, then it suggests that you are still not ready for the change or that you are fighting against the change. Alternatively, it highlights passion and the love of those around you.
To dream that you put out a fire, signifies that you will overcome your obstacles in your life through much work and effort.
It seems like pretty straightforward cause and effect to me. You are obviously afraid of your parents succeeding in taking your child or in tearing your family apart in a different way. Conquering your fears should help conquer your dream. Assess the situation to see what you can change to minimize any chance of it happening. Taking action is the best way to conquer fears - either talk to your parents about the situation or take some other action to improve the situation to the best of your ability. Good luck to you.
hello dear human friend, your dream has caught my eye.
The way I will explain this dream for you is, THere will be a time when your boyfriend will be helped by one of your family members, (who at the moment does not seem supportive) but in time especially when the offer of support will come from them first to your boyfriend the, YOU and every dream must be translated as good and pure how ever frieghtning it may seem, as the meanings differ, SO this dream of yours is very well in deed, and it is only support you will get from your family, and I know you might be saying they are so misunderstanding at the moment, please remember it will change for mountain of support to your new family,
take care
hope all is well
yours spiritually tolga
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Originally Posted by babygirl82
I have been having a dream the last couple of nights and I'm not sure what it means, if anything.
A little background first so everyone will understand the dream - I have a 10 mth old daughter that my parents have tried to have removed from me twice now. I have not spoken to my parents since before she was born, and even had to have my phone number changed because they were harassing me.
I have been dreaming that my parents are coming into my home and they remove my daughter from me by force, they do some very bad bodly harm to my boyfriend, and then burn my home down with my daughter in it. Each night that I have had this dream (4 times so far) it gets worse, and worse. I will wake up hearing the sounds of my daughter screaming, and its really beginning to worry me. This sounds really weird, I know, and I honestly don't know if it just might be stress or if this might mean something. Any ideas or any one else who might have had a dream kinda like this and can give me any insight on this it will be appericated.
Thanks
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